In case you didn't realise, James runs this forum and has invested a lot of time getting it up and running to what it is today. So it might be nice if you respected his requests. You should remember that any forum moderator can actually remove / edit posts as he / she sees fit, so the case of "won't" is a bit acadamic - it might just be that you don't get published.
And I would second Ivanhoe's comments - people do tend to get a bit peeved when they've invested time in typing out a response only to find out that it was either a childish wind-up or that the person who has posted doesn't really care about / understand the question they posed.
honestly peeps im surprised that so many people have replied to my post so thanks loads and im looking into it now, i have a fair idea on what to do but im still on the dicussion seat with my partner.
umm got the feeling GOOse (gee what a name) was starting to rule my message board lol!!!!!
I give up. What's lol? And all the other short forms. It reminds me a bit of the sixties and seventies when it was cool to say nothing, to never admit not understanding. Or, shortly afterwards, admitting you like Chas and Dave. There's no pleasing some people, though.